I’m still giving to get and I don’t know how to stop. I don’t think I fully understand the concept of giving. I used to think I did but my lack of understanding of the matter has been glaring all month. Usually, this is something I’d like to discuss with…

Being vulnerable means, you are present, honest and open. Let’s start from there. If vulnerability is these three things, then, it makes sense that if you are aloof, dishonest and for whatever reason unable to share yourself, then you haven't been vulnerable. …

Acceptance of yourself where you are. Wouldn’t life be so much better if we just learnt to accept things? It would. That was not a rhetorical question. Acceptance is my big message for you from my experience this month. Acceptance frees you from resentment and grants you healing because it…

“You can’t pin joy like a moth.” You know what time it is? It’s time for #HFMP. That’s right. February has been dropping nuggets every single day and they are more applicable now more than ever. You are welcome to my favorite corner of this space 🫶 The first thing…

My readers know that I am an advocate for humans evolving and stretching our minds. As far as I’m concerned, it’s about perspective and that is greatly marked by what you do or do not know. This is why I constantly remind people to cultivate that hunger to stretch and…

On Moving Forward!!! Why do we even see that as a thing that should exist? “Black people”, “white people”, “class system”, “MY friends”, “My clique”, “MINE”, “OURS”, “US”, “THOSE PEOPLE”, “THEM” “Fulani”, “ijaw”, “infidel”, “North and south”, all of that. Don’t you see that that’s the problem? That’s the tool…

This love language matter is not easy, please😭🤦🏽‍♀️🙄🥹 Just imagine a physical touch person who went and caught feelings for someone who doesn’t like physical touching. Hugs and kisses and maybe even PDA are things you crave yet if you start, she will say you have started. “Ahn Ahn can’t…

I’ve been feeling this fleeting pain in my chest for two days now. I know my daughters (especially Rinu) will flip once I mention that I have been feeling this tightness in my chest going on three days now. …

Our words have powers…Hebrews 4:12 If the word of God is alive and active and powerful and sharper than the sharpest double-edged sword that can cut between soul and spirit and bone and marrow (I mean do you know how specific and powerful you have to be to be able…