Alarm bells
Your girlfriend of four months is not family? Then why are you dating? Just to have the title on paper?
I am giving you wifey energy and you are running. Even telling me that I am giving you wifey energy. What am I supposed to be giving you? Is it not relationship that you people say you are doing? Abi how are you people now doing relationship these days? Same mouth you used to ask for you guys to be exclusive and serious is the same mouth you are using to tell her you failed to share crucial plans because they didn’t concern her (you should only get heat when you fail to share things that concern the both of you directly, according to you).
I don’t even know how people in the dating pool can separate a stingy man from a man who simply doesn’t have money. When someone finds it so difficult to do something you have been going on about for weeks, what does that mean? You don’t have money but you bought a new car? You don’t have money yet you are buying stuff daily. Is it neuroses to think that someone who cares for you would be willing to just give anything they can just to support you in solving a need. I mean it’s just this one time, correct? Do your boyfriends and girlfriends only do stuff for you when it is 1000% convenient for them? If that’s the update, I didn’t know that. I used to think that dating was a case of ‘it doesn’t matter if I have to squeeze myself for two weeks just to accommodate you and your luggage. You are welcome here until you find a place’. You know, the intention, the openness to makes sacrifices as long as you can.
Apparently I can’t learn unlearn and relearn enough about dating relationships. The other day someone was crying that her boyfriend was fine two weeks ago, today he has a different girl as his display picture and the same girl is throwing his birthday party. What is going on?
The experiences people have shared where they met someone, had a connection, had chemistry, given it a go, not doing it with any agenda and getting reciprocated energy, were those all cooked up? Sold to dreamers?
